By request, this is an explanation of how I masturbate now. It’s completely changed the experience. For someone as dysphoric as I am, it’s a life-changer.
I discovered that curling my clit inwards prevented erections. From there it was a matter of experimentation until I found this method. There are countless other ways to position your hand, however, so I recommend women who try this experiment! As long as my clit is curled around like in panel 4 I don’t get erect, and there are lots of hot things I can do without triggering massive dysphoria.
It does take getting used to, though, if you’re used to stimulating yourself a certain way. If you’ve masturbated one way your entire life it may take awhile to retrain your body. When I first discovered this technique I couldn’t get off using it. At the end I’d have to go back to the “traditional” method. But now it’s easy. Be patient, be persistent, and experiment. It’s worth it.
[Edit: Updated URL on image.]
[Edit: Added additional information.]I’ve heard good things about this from various CAMAB folks who have junk-based dysphoria :)
Sharing for my MAAB followers. Who most likely already have seen this, but eh. Can never signal boost enough.
Signal boosting away :3
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Not sure I’d typically reblog but that commentary I couldn’t pass by. I hate that queer folk have to get angry but I...
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Well damn. Sorry if I came off looking uppity by the way. I guess I wasn’t aware of the beginning of the conversation....
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I already answered this back when...original exchange happened, check
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Why the hostility?! Jesus. It seemed like they were just intrigued. I didn’t get a “oooo this is kinky vibe” at all....
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easiest thing ever to understand and someone still doesn’t get it IT’S EXPLAINED RIGHT THERE IN THE TEXT anywhoosits...
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:D ^^Them responses tho. best shit ever.
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In my entire life, I’ve met only one or two who aren’t so perhaps they’re statistical anomalies of awesomeness
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You’re welcome. Glad you enjoyed the video!
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damn. well that was worth watching *squirms* thanks! it hadn’t occurred to me to tuck when i was doing it.
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There is a video in the works...the awesome Tobi Hill-Meyer that will include
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been told it works...some uncut people...others. If you come...
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I don’t really understand how this works for un-cut people :/.
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